Saturday, October 18, 2025

Do You Struggle With Procrastination?

If you are wandering why you are distracted from focusing on the needful things that you need to get done but keep delaying yourself from doing them, the following ChatGPT-generated article on the link between dopamine and procrastination would offer you some insights and remedies that you could hopefully use to overcome procrastination.

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The link between dopamine and procrastination is deep, biological, and psychological. Let’s unpack it clearly:

🧠 1. Dopamine: The “motivation molecule”

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that drives our brain’s reward and motivation system. It doesn’t just make us feel good — it gives us the anticipation of feeling good.

It fuels desire, focus, and goal-directed behavior.

Every time we anticipate a reward (checking our phone, eating, achieving a task), our brain releases dopamine.

So, dopamine is not about the pleasure of the reward itself, but about the expectation of it — the urge that pushes us to act.


⚖️ 2. Procrastination: The avoidance of discomfort

Procrastination isn’t really laziness. It’s our brain avoiding short-term discomfort or stress (like tackling a complex or boring task) in favor of something that gives immediate dopamine (scrolling social media, watching videos, snacking, etc.).

In short:

The brain chooses the path that offers higher immediate dopamine with less resistance.


🧩 3. How dopamine imbalance feeds procrastination

When our brain gets used to quick dopamine hits (from constant notifications, entertainment, etc.), it becomes less sensitive to low-dopamine tasks — like writing a report, studying, or exercising.

The brain then craves instant rewards.

Low-stimulation tasks feel dull, heavy, or even painful.

So we avoid them, telling ourselves we’ll “do it later.”

That’s procrastination in biochemical form.


🔄 4. Breaking the cycle: Resetting dopamine and motivation

To overcome procrastination, you don’t need more willpower — you need to rebalance dopamine.

Here’s how:

Reduce instant dopamine hits: limit phone use, social media, and multitasking.

Create small wins: break big tasks into small steps — each success gives a natural dopamine release.

Delay gratification: train your brain to find reward in effort, not escape.

Pair dull tasks with small pleasures (e.g., music, coffee).

Regular exercise and sleep — both naturally regulate dopamine.


💡 In essence

Dopamine determines what we want to do, not what we should do.

When we learn to make our goals themselves rewarding — rather than chasing quick dopamine fixes — procrastination naturally weakens.


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Simple Bicycles, Singapore

If you are living in Singapore and thinking of looking for a preloved branded bike, please feel free to check out Simple Bicycles for a good bargain at their outlet located at the following address: 37 Kallang Pudding Rd, Blk B , 02-03 Tong Lee Building, Singapore 349315.

Their Instagram link is @simpleridesimplelife and you can also find them on Carousell.













Take Lift 7 at Blk B to the 2nd floor


Main entrance at 02-03


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How To Solve Any Problem

Problems are meant to be solved. 

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities - brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems." -- John W. Gardner

Oftentimes, a problem is actually an opportunity for you to solve and generate benefits from it. For example, solar-powered atmospheric water generators have been invented to provide clean drinking water to communities living in arid conditions without any proper water supply system.

Click here for Turning air into H20: How her innovative Majik machine gets clean drinking water to those in need.


A quick way to fix the problem you faced is to find someone who has the necessary expertise. For painful tooth or gums issue, you consult your dentist for the necessary treatment. If you struggle with your income tax filing, you look for a trusty tax accountant. To achieve a breakthrough in your dream of pursuing a singing career, you engage a voice coach for mentoring. But, they come at a price. If you can afford it, then well and good.

Alternatively, you could do-it-yourself (DIY) albeit slower and take a longer time. Practically though, it is not applicable for all problems such as scaling or drilling your own teeth.

For those problems that you could address on your own, then put in the time and effort to learn and grow in your knowledge, understanding and know-how. As you develop your mental faculty you would be in a good standing to tackle the problems that challenges you such as stress, not knowing the purpose of your life, relationship and finances.

Here are some resources and quotable quotes gleaned from the internet for your refreshing. 

Click here for This season isn’t punishment—it’s preparation. 

Click here for How to Overcome Stress | A Lesson from Professor Christopher | Wisdom Tales by Pooja.

Click here for I’m on a mission… are you?

Click here for Thinking Big Changes Everything | Motivational Story.


Click here for 
The Beauty of Patience - A Powerful Story. 


"You will find peace not by trying to escape your problems, but by confronting them courageously. You will find peace not in denial, but in victory." -- J. Donald Walters

 

"The problems of the world cannot possibly be solved by skeptics or cynics whose horizons are limited by the obvious realities. We need men who can dream of things that never were." -- John F. Kennedy


"It's very important that we re-learn the art of resting and relaxing. Not only does it help prevent the onset of many illnesses that develop through chronic tension and worrying; it allows us to clear our minds, focus, and find creative solutions to problems." -- Thich Nhat Hanh


"The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny." -- Albert Ellis


"The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world's problems." -- Mahatma Gandhi


"Within the covers of the Bible are the answers for all the problems men face." -- Ronald Reagan


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Saturday, October 4, 2025

Snippets of Singapore and Singaporeans (4 October 2025)

The iconic People's Park Complex in the heart of Singapore's Chinatown has been refreshed with a new coat of white and red paints.

People's Park Complex

Click here for URA completes structural study on People’s Park Complex ahead of anticipated conservation.

This was how it looked like before the paint job.

Click here for More than 50 MASSAGE PARLOURS in This Shopping Mall?! 🙌 新加坡最多按摩店的商场 [People’s Park Complex].

For your further refreshing, here are some articles and clips on life in Singapore and Singaporeans.

Click here for Billy Koh bridges cities through music | Find Me A Singaporean :The World's My Stage 稀游记之世界我的舞台 E8.

Click here for Dr Chua Jia Long breaks world record, conquers Triple Crown of Open Water Swimming in 23 Days.

Click here for Why Singapore Built A 150m-Deep Oil Cave | Singapore Hour.

Click here for Excessive screen time – our eyes are bearing the greatest brunt and the long-term damage is worrying.

Click here for Truth About Living in Singapore for 6 Years as a Japanese.

Click here for The Italian Who Brought The World’s Oldest Pizzeria To Singapore | Singapore Hour.

Click here for 24 hours with a Wood Fire Butcher Chef: Butcher's Block.

Click here for Not for sale: He manages UOB’s 2,800 artworks.

Click here for Why This Neighbourhood Is A Gentleman’s Paradise | Singapore Hour.

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King Grouper Fish Soup

Generally, good fish soup in Singapore is easy to find in just about any hawker centre. 

The usual sliced fish used for the soup are either batang (Spanish Mackerel; a sea fish) or toman (Giant Snakehead; a freshwater fish). You could find many such stalls with their loyal following of repeat customers. To my knowledge, competition is friendly.

So far so good. Wait till you try grouper (from same family as Sea Bass; an ocean fish), if not already done so, at, say, King Grouper Fish Soup.

With more outlets now, you do not have to travel all the way to Changi Village to enjoy grouper at King Grouper Fish Soup. The outlet featured here is located in Food Junction at NEX mall.

Get ready for a memorable fish feast

The grouper fish slices are super fresh, smooth in texture, tasty and thick-cut but so tender that they do not feel chunky at all. Meatballs are added to 'beef-up' the flavour. Unless you are sharing your soup or have a huge appetite, the small-size order would be more than adequate to satisfy your penchant for really fresh fish.


For the  standard fare, go for grouper. If you are giving yourself a treat, try the premium red grouper.

Teochew style sliced grouper fish

Super fresh sliced fish

Full steamed ahead and your meal is ready promptly

Besides pairing your fish soup with rice or noodles, there are are also other sides available such as fried fish roe (best kept secret addition, imho) and fish maw.

Grouper fish head with added fish maw


Click here for ULTIMATE fish soup showdown! | Food Finders Singapore S7E8.

As per general advisory, please consume all food in moderation.

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Friday, October 3, 2025

Be Kind To People

This is a gentle reminder to be kind to another person. 

May your life be like a fountain of kindness.

As it is, life is already tough. Be generous to offer a cup of refreshing kindness that conveys your human touch to make people you meet feel a little better because you are considerate and show that you care.

"No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted." -- Aesop


You can be kind with the words that you speak. Top on the list is to keep anger at bay. Anticipate and be prepared not to over-react to any unexpected event or worst-case scenario in life and hold your horses so that you do not unleash those poison darts from your mouth on other people (and yourself). Words spoken are liked spilt milk which could not be retracted. Berating another person harms both yourself and the victim(s) of your verbal abuse.

"Goodness is about character - integrity, honesty, kindness, generosity, moral courage, and the like. More than anything else, it is about how we treat other people." -- Dennis Prager


You can also show kindness with empathy. As you are not in the other person's shoes, you do not know what that annoying or agitating person in front of you may be going through-- their current circumstances, struggles and issues. People are not uptight or constrained for no reason. And, on a fair day, people wants to live a happy life and not cause trouble to other people.

"Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again." -- Og Mandino


If you are in a position to help, your willingness to go the first mile or even an extra mile would go the distance to alleviate another person's predicament and/or plight.

"A tree is known by its fruit; a man by his deeds. A good deed is never lost; he who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love." --Saint Basil 


When you show kindness, you create a cycle of blessing and ripple effect to enrich your community and contribute to making our world a better place.

"Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver."   -- Barbara De Angelis

"Remember there's no such thing as a small act of kindness. Every act creates a ripple with no logical end." -- Scott Adams 


Sign up for the Kindness Revolution today. There is no registration and subscription fees. All it takes is your willingness to go for it. 

"You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late." -- Ralph Waldo Emerson


Click here for Ripple (Award Winning)- Kindness and good deeds will come back to you.

Click here for The Kindness Song | Official Lyric Video | Songs for School.

Click here for Bon Jovi - Have A Nice Day.


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Saturday, September 27, 2025

You Can Overcome Your Inner Struggles

Every living person experiences inner struggles without exception. Take heart, you are not alone.

Image credits: YouVersion app

Besides sharing your challenges with trusted people who care for you, you could expand and stretch your mind through reading and finding out more on how to cope and live life as a survivor or overcomer.

For your refreshing, here are some resources on the internet:

Click here for Short Story About Jealousy and Kindness | Moral Lesson | Motivational Story.

Click here for How to Stop Suffering in Life | Story of a Bird | Motivational Moral Story.

Click here for How to stop suffering in life ? | A powerful motivational story | Learn english through stories.

Click here for From Debt and Diabetes to Hope: The Untold Story of Jeremy from Two-Wings.

Rest, ponder and plan for your next flight

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