Saturday, August 23, 2025

Short Story: Granny's Shades

When we are prepared to face the truth, it liberates us with an added grace to live life to the fullest.

The following short story is generated using ChatGPT for your refreshing:-

Photo by Anton Be on Unsplash

Sharon had grown up with a curious image of her grandmother—always in those large tinted shades, even when the curtains were drawn and the house was dim. As a child, she thought it made Granny mysterious, almost like an old movie star. Her mother, Esther, always said gently, “Granny has sensitive eyes, dear. That’s all.”

Now sixteen, Sharon noticed things her younger self never did. She saw how Granny avoided visitors, how she kept to her corner of the living room like the sunlight itself might betray her. The shades weren’t fashion anymore—they were armor.

One rainy afternoon after completing her school assignments, Sharon came to sit next to her grandmother for a chat. The house smelled of ginger tea. Granny sat at her usual spot by the window, shades perched heavy on her face.

“Granny, you know…” Sharon began hesitantly, “I always wondered what you really look like without those.”

Granny froze, her hand tightening around her teacup. For years she had rehearsed excuses, but none seemed to fit anymore. Sharon wasn’t a little girl asking innocently—she was a young woman, looking for truth.

With trembling fingers, Granny lifted the shades and set them on the table. Her eyes—gentle, tired, but still shining—met Sharon’s. The room felt suddenly bare.

“Sharon,” she whispered, “your mother told you I wore these for my eyes. But it wasn’t the light I was hiding from. It was the past.”

Sharon leaned in, heart thumping.

“When I was young,” Granny continued, “I made choices I thought were the only way to survive. I worked… in places a young woman should never have had to. And then I had your mother. She was my light, my chance to start again. But the shame never left me. I thought if I covered my eyes, no one would see what I carried inside.”

Sharon’s throat tightened. She had never imagined her quiet Granny carrying such a story.

“Granny…” she reached for her grandmother’s hand, “you don’t have to be ashamed with me. You raised Mom, and you gave her everything you could. Isn’t that strength?”

The tears came then—hot, unrestrained. For decades Granny had held them back, fearing judgment, fearing she’d taint her daughter and granddaughter with her history. But Sharon’s hand was steady, warm, insistent.

“My darling,” Granny said through tears, “I thought my past defined me. But maybe love—yours, your mother’s—was what defined me all along.”

Esther, who had been standing quietly by the doorway listening, stepped forward. She placed her hands on both Sharon and Granny’s. “Ma,” she said softly, “you don’t need to hide anymore. We’ve always loved you, shades or no shades.”

For the first time in years, Granny smiled fully, without the tint of darkness between her and the world. The rain outside had stopped, and a thin ribbon of sunlight pierced through the window, resting gently on her face. She didn’t flinch.

“Maybe,” she said, lifting her chin, “it’s time I let the light in.”

Sharon squeezed her hand. “And we’ll be right here with you, every step.”

That day, Granny’s shades stayed on the table. She never picked them up again.

And though the years behind her still held sorrow, the years ahead glimmered with something she hadn’t dared to believe possible—freedom.


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Snippets of Singapore (23 August 2025)

If you are thinking of keeping a memento of your visit to Singapore, the following Lego set might well be suitable for you.





Places of interest featured:
1) Marina Bay Sands
2) Gardens by the Bay
3) The Fullerton Hotel
4) Lau Pa Sat 
5) One Raffles Place
6) OCBC Centre
7) Boat Quay


For your further refreshing, here are some articles and clips on life in Singapore.

Click here for This ex-Power Rangers TV star is living in Singapore with a startup aimed at transforming community events.

Click here for The toy collector in Singapore who turned his passion into a thriving lifestyle.

Click here for Buses, Trishaws, Mobile Hawkers: History Of Singapore's Vibrant Streets | Let Me Tell You A Story S2.

Click here for Kidnapped as a teen, the Mexican chef behind Papi’s Tacos in Singapore reveals how he beat the odds.

Click here for ‘Meat’ The Australian Who Works In A Wet Market | Singapore Hour.

Click here for 60 Must-Try Singapore Hawker Food To Celebrate SG60 – A-Z List From Ayam Penyet, Chicken Rice, to Zi Char.  


Volkswagen ID.Buzz

Electric cars are no longer a dream but a present reality in Singapore with a growing population of varieties such as BYD, Hyundai, MG and Tesla. 

Lo and behold, this is the very first Volkswagen ID.Buzz sighted recently.







Click here for Volkswagen ID.Buzz LWB 7-Seater | Sgcarmart Reviews.  


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Sunday, August 17, 2025

TOP 1 Home Made Noodle

You can't judge a book by its cover, but by its content and reviews. Likewise, don't judge a food stall by its appearance. Rather, take a closer look of the food that is being served as well as reviews. Yes, food that looks good usually tastes good.


If you have time to spare, say, 30 minutes, it would be worth the wait for you to queue for TOP 1 home made noodle. 



Follow the steps outlined at the stall and place your orders. I went for ban mian, clear soup, white fish and meatball.



At first taste, I was blown away by the super rich flavour of the soup which was unlike anything that I have ever tasted. This is reason enough to make another visit, if I have the luxury of time to wait for my turn.



The noodle was outstanding with its springy non-soggy firm texture and it is like an atas (refined) handful of top-notch pasta at a down-to-earth price.



This was indeed a memorable bowl of soup and ban mian that would linger on till the next opportunity.

Click here for Top 1 Home Made Noodle: Super shiok fully customisable QQ ban mian & tom yum mee.

Click here Top 1 Home Made Noodle – Four Tasty Soup Bases To Pair With Ban Mian.

Click here for I Found The Best Fish Noodles in Singapore SG Bukit Timah Exploration.


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Saturday, August 9, 2025

Happy 60th Birthday, Singapore!

The weather looked downcast with the sound of thunder and drizzle of light rain. Many had prayed for the weather to turn around, I believe, and the sky held out for a cool and lovely 60th birthday bash for Singapore. Thanks be to God!

Click here for National Day Parade 2025 | NDP 2025 #ndp2025 #nationalday #sg60

The image credits go to Channel News Asia (CNA) for the following extracts from CNA's telecast of NDP 2025:-








































































































Click here for NDP 2025: Behind The Scenes At Singapore's 60th National Day Parade | On The Red Dot.

Click here for Meet Mr X: The iconic voice at Singapore’s National Day Parade for over 20 years.

Click here for Singapore PM Lawrence Wong's National Day Message for 2025.


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Short Story: Young At Night

Love is blinding. 

When someone gets into the fluttery zone of love, they are like in a trance and it usually takes a momentous disruption for them to snap out of it.  

The following short story generated by ChatGPT, with editing, serves as wake-up call on love scams targeting not just the elderly, but also the young and in-betweens. Yes, the young and savvy could fall prey to love traps, as well.

To be forewarned is to be forearmed, before it is too late to keep your money.


Image credits: ChatGPT

It started with a sparkle.

Ever since Agnes passed on three years ago, Lawrence had lived quietly in his Clementi flat—days spent reading the Straits Times, sipping kopi-O at the coffeeshop downstairs, and watching children dash around the playground like his own once did. He is 72 years young (not old, he reckons), wiry but sprightly, his hearing a bit dulled, but not his heart.

Then came Sonya.

She first appeared in his life one monsoon night when Lawrence was fiddling with Facebook, mostly to keep up with his grandchildren's photos. A friend request. A beautiful woman in her 40s, with cascading auburn hair and an easy, golden smile.

"Hello, Lawrence. I hope I'm not intruding. You seem like such a kind soul."

They chatted. Then again the next day. And then every night. Her words danced with warmth and laughter. She asked about his life, his meals, even about Agnes—and she never judged.

"You’re different, Sonya," Lawrence once typed, palms slightly sweaty. "It feels like I've known you longer than I’ve been old."

One evening, over coffee at his usual haunt, Lawrence shared his newfound joy with Raymond, a friend from his SAF days. Both widowed, both retired, both wary of the ticking clock.

"Sonya and I—we talk for hours. She wants to come visit. Maybe even settle down here. Can you believe it, Ray? I think I found love again."

Raymond stirred his teh-C slowly, watching the steam rise. "I'm happy that you're happy, Law. But... are you sure? You’ve never met her in person. These online things—”

Lawrence waved it off. “You think I don’t know how to be careful? She’s not like those scammers. She’s real. She showed me her passport. Even cried when I shared about Agnes' final few days.”

Still, Raymond's frown lingered, but he checked himself.

Then came the request like an unexpected blue moon.

Sonya said her aunt was gravely ill and the hospital required upfront payment before they could begin surgery. She had some money, but not enough. If only Lawrence could help—just SGD 20,000. As a loan. No, as a gesture of love.

He stared at the transfer screen one humid morning, fingers trembling slightly, blinking at the long string of digits she had sent.

Then his phone buzzed.

“Lawrence,” came Raymond’s voice, out of breath. “Turn on Channel 8. Now. It’s urgent.”

He fumbled for the remote.

The news anchor was reporting a recent string of love scams targeting elderly Singaporean men. One of the reported scammers matched Sonya's profile picture exactly. The golden smile. The auburn hair. Even the voice clip they played sent shivers down his spine.

Lawrence’s chest tightened. He stared at the paused bank screen. Slowly, he closed his laptop.

He didn’t weep. He didn’t rage. But that night, as the rain tapped gently against his windows, he sat in silence with Raymond, gulping down a bottle of ice cool Tiger beer. He needed something tipsy to numb the pain of happiness dissipating.

“I really thought she saw me,” Lawrence whispered. “Not just the old man. But me.”

Raymond nodded, hand firm on his shoulder. “She didn’t. But I do. So do your grandkids. You’re not invisible, Law. You’re just... lonely. And there are better ways to heal than falling into someone’s trap.”

A week later, Lawrence joined a local photography club for seniors. He started learning how to use a DSLR his son had given him years ago. Slowly, frame by frame, he began to capture the beauty in everyday things—sunlight on hawker stalls, children playing by the canal, and once, a candid shot of a widow with silver-streaked hair who smiled at him shyly from across the workshop table.

He kept that photo.


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Where Do Ants Come From?

Even in a high-tech environment and high-rise building, ants have a way of creeping on you. Where do ants come from and how do they find their way to you when you attract them, unwittingly?

With the help of ChatGPT, you will uncover the following (and possibly score a point in a game of trivia by knowing the answer to the question: "Where do ants come from?"):-

Ants are fascinating creatures with remarkable survival skills—and even more impressive when you realize how adaptable they are in urban settings like high-rise buildings.

🐜 Where Do Ants Come From?

Ants come from colonies—underground or hidden nests built in the soil, walls, cracks, potted plants, or even behind electrical outlets or inside furniture. Each colony has:

  • A queen (or several, in some species) who lays eggs.

  • Workers, who forage for food, care for the young, and build the nest.

  • Sometimes soldiers, for defense.

In apartments or high-rise buildings, ants can:

  • Travel up through service ducts, cracks in walls, and utility piping (water, gas, electrical).

  • Be carried in through potted plants, groceries, cardboard boxes, or secondhand items.

  • Build nests inside walls, under floors, behind cabinets, or even in air-con units if moisture is present.


👀 Are Ants Blind?

Some ants are partially or completely blind, especially species that live mostly underground. However, most common household ants (like sugar ants or Argentine ants) have compound eyes and can detect:

  • Light and shadow

  • Movement

  • Shapes (though not very clearly)

But ants don’t rely on eyesight to find food. Instead, they use other powerful senses:


🔍 How Do Ants Find Sugary Stuff?

Ants are masters of chemosensation—they use their antennae to detect chemical signals. Here's how they find sweet foods:

  1. Scouting: A single worker ant roams randomly and if it finds sugar, it:

    • Eats some or collects it.

    • Heads back to the nest laying a pheromone trail as it returns.

  2. Recruitment: Other ants follow the trail left behind, reinforcing it each time they go to the food and back.

  3. Highway of ants: Soon, you'll see a steady line of ants going back and forth—like a GPS made from scent.

They are particularly attracted to:

  • Sugary spills (syrup, soft drinks, fruit)

  • Greasy or protein-rich foods

  • Pet food and food crumbs


🏙️ Why Are They Even in High-Rises?

Ants can thrive in vertical environments because:

  • They follow plumbing and wiring routes, even several floors up.

  • They nest inside walls and foundations, often unnoticed.

  • They’re opportunists: even a tiny crumb behind a cabinet can attract them.

  • They cooperate in colonies, making them persistent and hard to eliminate.


🚫 How to Prevent or Control Ants

  1. Seal cracks and crevices around windows, doors, and baseboards.

  2. Keep food sealed and clean up spills quickly.

  3. Use ant baits near trails to disrupt the colony.

  4. Remove standing water or moisture.

  5. Inspect plants, packages, and groceries before bringing them in.


🧴 Natural Deterrents

Natural RepellentHow to UseEffect

White vinegar spray

Mix 1:1 with water and     spray entry points
Erases pheromone trails
Lemon juice
Apply around doors,
windows
Disrupts scent trails

Cinnamon   
or clove oil

Dab on cotton balls near   
ant trails
Strong scent repels ants

Peppermint oil
Mix with water and spray
Acts as a repellent and smells refreshing

Bay leaves

Place in pantry or cabinets

Natural food-safe deterrent


The battles to keep the ants at bay can be won with good housekeeping and deterrents.

While ants are a pest, we can learn self-determination from their diligence and resourcefulness as well as playing our role as a team player.

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