Don't Stop Writing Your Story

You have a unique story to tell the world.

The going is tough, but don't give up. Keep going and work it out to the best of your ability and make it world-class.

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With the help of ChatGPT, "Here are five deeply inspiring stories of actors and writers who were at rock bottom before turning their lives around through resilience, belief, and persistence. Each story highlights a different kind of struggle—and a triumphant comeback.

🎬 1. Sylvester Stallone – From Homeless to Hollywood Icon

Rock Bottom:
In the early 1970s, Stallone was so broke he was sleeping in the New York bus terminal. He sold his dog for $40 just to afford food. He was rejected over 1,500 times for acting roles because of his slurred speech and looks.

Turning Point:
Stallone wrote the script for Rocky in just three days after watching a boxing match. Producers loved the script but didn’t want him to star. He refused every offer—even $350,000—unless he played Rocky himself.

Victory:
Eventually, he got the part with a lower salary. Rocky went on to win 3 Oscars, including Best Picture. He later bought his dog back—for $15,000.

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✍️ 2. J.K. Rowling – From Welfare to Wizarding World

Rock Bottom:
Rowling was a single mother living on welfare in Edinburgh, battling depression and suicidal thoughts. She wrote the first Harry Potter book in cafés while her baby napped beside her.

Turning Point:
She submitted Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone to 12 publishers. All rejected it. A small publishing house, Bloomsbury, finally accepted—but only after the chairman's 8-year-old daughter loved it.

Victory:
Rowling became the world’s first billionaire author, and the Harry Potter series has sold over 500 million copies, changing millions of lives—including hers.

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🎭 3. Robert Downey Jr. – From Prison to Iron Man

Rock Bottom:
Downey battled substance abuse for years. He was arrested multiple times, spent time in prison, and was seen as uninsurable by Hollywood. His once-promising career was nearly destroyed.

Turning Point:
He slowly turned his life around through rehab, therapy, and support from friends like Mel Gibson. The real shift came when Marvel took a huge gamble by casting him as Tony Stark in Iron Man.

Victory:
Iron Man launched the Marvel Cinematic Universe. Downey became one of the highest-paid actors in the world and a symbol of redemption.

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📚 4. Stephen King – From Janitor to King of Horror

Rock Bottom:
King grew up in poverty and worked odd jobs—including as a janitor and gas pump attendant. He lived in a trailer and couldn’t afford a phone. His first novel Carrie was rejected 30 times.

Turning Point:
Frustrated, he threw the manuscript in the trash. His wife, Tabitha, pulled it out and encouraged him to keep going.

Victory:
Carrie sold over a million copies and became a major film. King has since published over 60 novels and is considered one of the most successful authors in history.

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🎬 5. Charlize Theron – From Trauma to Oscar-Winner

Rock Bottom:
Born in South Africa, Theron witnessed her mother shoot and kill her abusive father in self-defense. She moved to the U.S. to become a ballet dancer but a knee injury ended that dream. She was broke, alone, and desperate in LA.

Turning Point:
Theron had a breakdown at a bank when she couldn’t cash a check. A talent agent witnessed the scene and gave her a chance.

Victory:
She became a top Hollywood actress, won an Oscar for Monster, and has since become a respected producer and activist.

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🌟 Takeaway Message:

Each of these individuals hit a wall—poverty, addiction, trauma, or rejection. But they didn’t stop. Their success was born not of luck, but of grit, persistence, and faith in their own story.

“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”
— J.K. Rowling

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Combat Free Radicals With Antioxidants

The following ChatGPT-generated article serves as a refreshing reminder not to neglect eating fruits and vegetables as part of your daily diet.

These fresh produce are readily available and you could even have them as a drink from the likes of Kagome and Campbell's.

Image credits: kagome-sg.com

Image credits: campbells.com

"Oxygen is essential for life — it's crucial for generating energy in your cells.

However, in excess or in the wrong form, oxygen can also be harmful. Here’s why, and where antioxidants come in:

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🔬 Why Oxygen Can Be Harmful

When your body uses oxygen to produce energy (in a process called cellular respiration), it also creates byproducts called reactive oxygen species (ROS) or free radicals. These molecules are unstable and can damage:

• DNA

• Proteins

• Cell membranes

This damage is known as oxidative stress, which contributes to aging, inflammation, and diseases like cancer, Alzheimer’s, and heart disease.

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🛡️ Why We Need Antioxidants

Antioxidants are molecules that neutralize free radicals, stopping them from causing damage. Your body naturally makes some antioxidants (like glutathione), but you also need to get them from your diet to maintain balance.

Without enough antioxidants, oxidative stress can overwhelm your system.

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🥗 Sources of Antioxidants & How to Get Enough

You can get antioxidants naturally through whole foods, especially:

🫐 Fruits & Veggies (High in Vitamins A, C, E, and polyphenols)

• Berries (blueberries, strawberries, blackberries)

• Citrus fruits (oranges, lemons)

• Leafy greens (spinach, kale)

• Carrots, sweet potatoes

• Bell peppers, broccoli

🍫 Other Great Sources

• Dark chocolate (rich in flavonoids)

• Green tea and matcha (catechins)

• Nuts and seeds (vitamin E, selenium)

• Coffee (polyphenols)

• Turmeric (curcumin)

• Olive oil (polyphenols)

• Red wine (resveratrol — in moderation)

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✅ Tips to Get Enough Antioxidants Daily

1. "Eat the rainbow" – Include a variety of colorful fruits and veggies daily.

2. Choose minimally processed foods – Processing reduces antioxidant content.

3. Use spices liberally – Cinnamon, turmeric, oregano, and cloves are antioxidant-rich.

4. Drink green tea or coffee instead of sugary drinks.

5. Snack on nuts, seeds, and dark chocolate instead of chips.

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⚖️ Balance is Key

While antioxidants are beneficial, excessive supplementation (especially in pill form) may interfere with natural body processes or even increase certain health risks. It's best to aim for antioxidants from food sources unless advised otherwise by a healthcare provider.

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Here's a simple antioxidant-rich meal plan for one day, designed to be delicious, balanced, and easy to follow — using everyday ingredients.

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🌅 Breakfast

🫐 Mixed Berry Greek Yogurt Parfait

Ingredients:

• 1 cup Greek yogurt (plain or lightly sweetened)

• ½ cup blueberries + ½ cup strawberries

• 2 tbsp rolled oats or granola

• 1 tbsp chia seeds

• Drizzle of honey (optional)

✅ Benefits: Berries are high in anthocyanins, yogurt provides probiotics and protein, and chia seeds are rich in omega-3s and polyphenols.

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☕ Mid-Morning Snack

🍵 Green Tea & A Handful of Almonds

• 1 cup brewed green tea (no sugar)

• 10–12 raw or lightly roasted almonds

✅ Green tea = catechins (powerful antioxidants), almonds = vitamin E

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🍛 Lunch

🥗 Quinoa Salad with Grilled Chicken & Roasted Veggies

Ingredients:

• 1 cup cooked quinoa

• 1 grilled chicken breast (or tofu)

• Roasted bell peppers, broccoli, carrots

• Olive oil + lemon juice dressing

• Sprinkle of pumpkin seeds

✅ Colorful veggies = variety of antioxidants. Quinoa and seeds = zinc, selenium.

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🍊 Afternoon Snack

🍊 Orange Slices with Dark Chocolate

• 1 medium orange, peeled and sliced

• 2 small squares of 85% dark chocolate

✅ Citrus = vitamin C. Dark chocolate = flavonoids.

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🍲 Dinner

🐟 Salmon with Stir-Fried Veggies & Brown Rice

Ingredients:

• Grilled or baked salmon (seasoned with turmeric, garlic, and lemon)

• Stir-fried spinach, bok choy, mushrooms (light soy/garlic)

• ½–1 cup brown rice

✅ Salmon = omega-3s. Turmeric = curcumin (anti-inflammatory). Leafy greens = lutein and vitamin C.

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🌙 Optional Dessert / Evening Treat

🍇 Frozen Grapes or a Small Glass of Red Wine

• A handful of frozen grapes
  or

• 1 small glass of red wine (if you drink alcohol)

✅ Resveratrol in grapes and wine has antioxidant properties.

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🔄 Rotate & Customize

• Swap berries for mango or papaya

• Replace quinoa with barley or brown rice

• Use tofu or tempeh instead of chicken or salmon

• Try different teas: rooibos, hibiscus, or matcha"

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Snippets of Singapore (15 June 2025)

Singapore is situated on major international air routes, especially between Asia, Europe, and Australia. So, it's quite common to see contrails ("condensation trails") from high-flying aircraft even if you don't hear or see the plane clearly.

When airplanes fly at high altitudes, their jet engines emit hot water vapor as part of the exhaust. At cruising altitude where the air is very cold, the water vapor condenses and freezes into tiny ice crystals. These ice crystals, in turn, reflect sunlight, thereby making the trail look like a thin, white cloud.

The next feature is the Singapore Land Tower which is a prominent skyscraper located in the heart of Singapore’s central business district (CBD) standing at 190 metres (623 feet) since its completion in 1980.

Currently, it has undergone an Asset Enhancement Initiative around the theme of “Sustainable, Next‑Generation Workplace Transformation” — balancing landmark preservation with modern, green, and community-focused enhancements.

Noticeably, its new high-performance glass facade which features low‑emissivity double-glazing to reduce solar heat gain and improve energy efficiency also reflect aspects of its environment like a mirror by day and night. 

For your further refreshing, here are some clips on life in Singapore.

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Gotta Get Some Intense Moonbeam Ice Cream

Benson Boone's song "Mystical Magical" which mentioned Moonbeam ice cream is a refreshing departure from themes of losing someone too early, love gone cold and fear of losing beautiful things in his songs "Eric", "Ghost Town" and "Beautiful Things", respectively.

Image credits: ChatGPT

Click here for Once you eat Moonbeam Ice Cream nothing else feels right.

With the help of ChatGPT, here is a recap on some of Benson Boone's songs and why they resonate with listeners.

"Benson Boone’s music is a tender voyage through the landscapes of the heart—where love, loss, longing, and quiet hope unfold like pages of a handwritten letter. Each song he pens carries a sincerity that feels both intimate and universally understood.

“Eric” is a tribute wrapped in raw vulnerability. It tells the story of a beloved friend lost too soon—Eric—whose presence is still deeply felt even in absence. The song is Boone’s way of holding onto memory, of letting grief speak not with anguish, but with gentle reverence. It’s a soft-spoken elegy that offers comfort not just to himself, but to anyone who’s ever had to say goodbye too early.

“Some people leave the world, but never leave your heart.”

“Ghost Town” is the ache that lingers after love leaves. Here, the once-beautiful city of a relationship is deserted, a hollowed place echoing with what used to be. Boone sings of emotional distance with poetic restraint, capturing the slow unraveling of connection—the way a heart can feel haunted by something that once felt like home.

“What we built still stands, but the warmth has gone cold.”

In “Beautiful Things,” Benson Boone offers a bittersweet prayer of gratitude and fear. He sings of finally having something truly good—something beautiful—and the quiet terror of losing it. It’s a ballad of hope, humility, and the trembling joy of newfound love. His voice carries a softness that reflects how fragile blessings can feel, especially when one has known emptiness before.

“When you’ve known emptiness, beauty feels like a fragile miracle.”

Then comes “Mystical Magical” a whimsical title that belies its poignant depth. In this dreamy track, Boone conjures a world of childlike wonder and deep emotional undercurrents. It’s about finding sweetness in the everyday, and the way small moments—like ice cream under moonlight—can mean everything when shared with someone dear. The song evokes warmth, playfulness, and nostalgia all at once, like a lullaby for the soul.

“Sometimes, the sweetest magic lives in the smallest moments.”

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Together, these songs speak to Boone’s gift for capturing emotional truth. He doesn’t shout his pain or joy—he whispers it, offering a musical space where listeners can feel seen and soothed. Whether mourning, remembering, cherishing, or dreaming, Benson Boone invites us to feel fully, softly, and without shame."

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Short Story: Good Shot

Following from the previous post on The Anatomy of a Short Story and the techniques of writing to enthuse your readers, this is a sample short story generated using ChatGPT to refresh you and let your imagination take flight.

Image credits: ChatGPT

"It was a breezy Sunday afternoon, and the sky above the kampung house was a soft watercolor of cloud and sun. The old mango tree behind the porch swayed gently as a boy and his grandfather sat on its weathered bench, the cicadas humming like a distant applause.

“Ah, when I was your age,” Grandpa began, puffing on nothing but the air and a memory, “I could bring down a bird from that tree with just one smooth snap of a catapult.”

Ten-year-old Aiman, cradling his rescued kitten Puteh in his arms, looked up with an uneasy frown. “You killed birds, Tok Wan?”

The old man chuckled, his eyes twinkling like dusk stars. “Not always, boy. Not always. Let me tell you about one time. The time that changed everything.”

Grandpa leaned back, letting the memory stretch across decades.

“I was about eleven. Had a prized catapult I carved myself from a forked branch—smooth as river stone, rubber bands tight like a tiger’s muscle. There was a bird, a merbah jambul, sitting pretty on the wire behind our house. Its crown so red, it looked like it had stolen a spark from a firecracker.”

“I raised my catapult, pebble tucked just right. I could already taste the victory, feel the swagger in my walk.”

Aiman shifted uncomfortably. Puteh let out a soft mewl as if in protest.

“But then…” Grandpa’s voice dropped low, like a leaf falling without sound. “I hesitated.”

“What happened, Tok Wan?” Aiman asked, almost whispering.

“I looked at that bird, and for the first time, I saw it,” Grandpa said. “Not just as a target, but as a creature breathing the same air I did. Its little chest was rising and falling, and its eyes… they weren’t afraid. Not yet. Just curious. Trusting, almost.”

“I thought about what it meant. The pebble would hit, feathers would burst, the body would fall. And then what? I’d win? I’d brag? And the bird would just… stop being?”

He drew a shaky breath. “I remembered the nest near the bamboo grove. Maybe it had chicks waiting. Maybe a mate calling from the distance. Or maybe… it just wanted to sing another song tomorrow.”

“So,” Aiman asked, leaning in, “did you shoot?”

“I did.” Grandpa smiled. “But I aimed wide. The pebble flew clean past. The bird fluttered, startled, and took off into the open sky like a paper kite in the wind.”

Aiman grinned, relief washing over his young face. “That’s good, Tok Wan. I don’t like hurting animals.”

Grandpa reached out and gently patted Puteh on the head. “Neither do I anymore, Aiman. That day, I put away the catapult. Learned there’s more strength in choosing not to pull the trigger.”

“Did you ever tell your friends?”

Grandpa’s grin turned sly. “Let them believe I missed by accident. Let them think old Ibrahim’s aim failed him once. Only I knew the truth—and that truth felt better than any trophy.”

Aiman snuggled closer to his Tok Wan. “You’re kind of a hero, Tok Wan.”

The old man laughed, soft and honest. “Maybe, boy. Or maybe just an old fool who listened to his heart before his hand.”

And in the tree above them, a bird called out. Not the same one from long ago—but perhaps, in some way, a descendant of that mercy.

And both of them listened."

Click here for 5 Tips for Crafting the Perfect Short Story by Louise Marburg.

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The Anatomy of A Short Story (Told as a Story Itself)

In all likelihood, you like to hear a good story well told or recounted. And, you probably spent a lot of time doing that by listening to other people's stories, watching movies/sit-coms/social media and reading newspaper/books/e-books.

But, there is a tribe of people who also like to write stories besides being a consumer of stories. More concisely, they have a calling or inner yearning or leaning to create by writing. Perhaps, you feel this way but have not gotten your feet wet yet. What's stopping you?

To start with there are several genre of writings and Short Story (instead of Novel) might well be a good starting point for you.

Dive in as ChatGPT regales you with an understanding of what makes a Short Story ticks and what techniques are at your disposal to harvest your stories waiting to be shared worldwide.

"Once upon a mind, in a quiet writer’s room lit only by the golden spill of morning sun, lived a story—not yet written, but eager to exist. It had no name, no face, no heartbeat yet. But it whispered.

“Begin with me,” it said. “I am the hook.”

A good short story, the story knew, must start not with a yawn but a jolt—a surprising image, a curious moment, a line that taps a reader’s shoulder and says, “You’re not going anywhere.” Whether it's a scream in the dark or the first lie told at breakfast, the hook was the spark that lit the fuse.

And so the writer obeyed. A girl stood in the middle of a street, holding a broken violin, the bow missing, the silence louder than sirens.

The story was alive.

Next came the characters. Not too many, no crowd scenes, just enough to make the world feel real. One or two. Maybe three. But each with desire—that invisible fuel. The girl? She wanted to hear music again, even if it meant stealing sound from silence.

Characters in a short story don’t have pages to grow like trees. They grow like fire—quick, hot, visible in every gesture, every decision. So their backstory must be felt, not told. A chipped nail, a limp, a glance at an empty chair—they carry lifetimes.

Then, the story whispered of setting, not as scenery, but as soul. The street wasn’t just any street. It was the same street where her brother vanished. The cracked pavement still bore the chalk lines of his last game of hopscotch.

Setting in a short story must breathe. It must hold hands with theme and character. Let the dust on a windowsill reflect lost time. Let the flickering neon light echo an unstable mind. Let every detail carry weight, because in short stories, there’s no room for fluff.

Now came conflict, the shadow that gives light its shape. The girl heard a melody through an open window—a melody only her brother used to play. She climbed the fire escape. Did she hope? Did she fear?

Tension must hum like a taut violin string. And in short stories, it should rise fast, like a storm on the horizon. Every sentence must tighten it, escalate it. Want collides with obstacle. Heart meets hurt.

Then came structure, the invisible skeleton. The story shaped itself around five bones:

1. The Hook – violin, silence, curiosity.

2. The Characters and Set-Up – she wants music; the brother is gone.

3. The Rising Conflict – the mysterious melody.

4. The Climax – she opens the window.

5. The Resolution – what she finds… changes everything.

Not every short story uses this exact frame, but most play with its rhythm. It’s the natural beat of drama: from quiet to crescendo to quiet again—but not the same quiet you began with.

And now, theme. Ah, theme—the heartbeat behind the plot. A short story is small, yes, but mighty. It often shines a flashlight on one idea. This story? Loss and the echoes of love.

Theme must haunt the story, not hammer it. It’s found in the violin that can’t be played, in the note on the windowsill, in what’s said—and what’s left unsaid.

Finally came the ending—the soul’s exhale. It didn’t explain. It resonated. Maybe the girl didn’t find her brother. Maybe she found a recording he made, tucked under a dusty speaker. She cried, not because she found an answer, but because she found a voice.

The best endings don’t close doors; they leave a window open. A short story ends not with a period, but a pulse. A shiver. A question. A light still flickering after you walk away.

*** Techniques that Keep Readers Spellbound ***

The story, now fully formed, leaned over to whisper its secrets:

* Start late, leave early. Enter the scene at the moment of change. Exit before all is explained.

* Show, don’t tell. Let readers deduce emotions through action, not narration.

* Use strong imagery. A single powerful detail can outshine a paragraph of description.

* Write lean. Every word should serve purpose—tone, plot, or theme.

* Use subtext. What characters don’t say is just as powerful as what they do.

* Surprise. Twist the expectation, but make it feel inevitable in hindsight.

* End with impact. A line that lingers, a final image that glows.

And as the last word was written, the story closed its eyes, content. It had found breath, form, and heart.

And the reader?

They paused at the end… then read it again.

Because that’s what a gripping short story does—it lives in you, long after the last word." 

Click here for How to Write a Short Story That Captivates Your Reader by Jerry B. Jenkins.

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Snippets of Singapore (7 June 2025)

Spotted in Singapore, this T-shirt has a very inclusive message for everyone to 'Be True To Yourself" as it covers extra-terrestrial beings, as well.

And, if you are currently in Singapore you can catch a bite of these Meteors by Chateraise which have just landed and "brace for impact of deliciousness!".

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